BDSM TACTICS

“There is an overwhelming desire at moments to escape personality,
to revel in the action of forces that have no respect for ego,
to let the tides flow, even though they flow over us.”
– William James –

It’s well planned, with its unique specification so it is only right to assume that it’s very tactical. Well, some of you reading this might not know the meaning of BDSM so I’m going to try to break it down to its simplest units. BDSM stands for BONDAGE AND DOMINANCE, SADISM AND MASOCHISM, do you get the scope now? Ok, in case you’re still lost, BDSM relates to “crazy sex”. It’s not related to how many hours you can go just to please your partner, that’s quite mild in context to what I’m trying to explain. It’s actually an erotic practice that involves inflicting severe pain on each other (guess it’s clear now).
I’m quite certain you have heard stories about people that only enjoy sex in painful and crazy situations. Its WAR in every sense but just that the battle is brought to the bed. It’s a form of lovemaking that involves handcuffs, whips, sticks (lol), iron chains and even blind folds. It sounds insane but it’s a long serving practice, it’s also quite addictive. The whole concept has to do with inflicting enormous pain as a means of reaching orgasm.

I heard a story of a lady that only enjoys sex when wax is melted on her skin and also of a guy that loves being slapped and scratched while having sex! At first I was baffled and disgusted until recently when a friend narrated a story to me. According to her, her next door neighbour’s who have been married for many years are BDSM “victims”, she was always puzzled at the loud sounds they made at night and assumed they were just “noise makers” at their game until she saw Uncle Tobi(not his real name) coming back from work with a long piece of KOBOKO!(even though they didn’t have children at that time) and it all began to make sense to her. I know some of you might think they should go seek the help of a shrink, I actually felt that way too but what’s most puzzling is the fact that married couples actually indulge in it! Religion for one serves as a cushion in this case as couples have every right to indulge in whatever pleases them (that’s gist for another day!).

We thrive in a society that has soaked itself in denial, we are always quick to scream TUFIAKWA and not give a second thought to it. My sole opinion is that BDSM is and will never be a crime so long as the two parties involved want it. I only wrote this because I’ve been pondering on what sadism has to do with masochism. A sadist is someone who obviously enjoys seeing people suffer and a masochist is someone who inflicts and enjoys pain during sex. So at what point do they correlate? Are you also of the opinion that a masochist is a sadist? They enjoy the painful sex but that doesn’t mean they are not happy . Well I’m an advocate for true love and if it’s what gives you and your partner the satisfaction you need to stick together and be an amazing couple, then ride on with it. As a reminder I’d advice we consider our “love tools” because you don’t go using machetes and hot water all in the name of masochism! That’s just pure evil. Stay blessed till I bring you another exciting piece.

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8 thoughts on “BDSM TACTICS

  1. Oh well, along the line I thought you were going to say it’s wrong tho. I know that people have the right to decide what pleases them but..but.. How can one derive pleasure in the midst of so much pain???

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  2. * I actually felt that way too but what’s most puzzling is the fact that married couples actually indulge in it! Religion for one serves as a cushion in this case as couples have every right to indulge in whatever pleases them (that’s gist for another day!).* That’s a powerful one from U ceeflo …this is pure INSPIRATION… #kudos

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  3. You actually make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this matter to be really something which I
    think I would never understand. It seems too complex and extremely broad
    for me. I am looking forward for your next post,
    I will try to get the hang of it!

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